Oct 082010

sex toysI’m packing for an overnight get-away with Joel. I’m really looking forward to spending some alone time with him. We don’t often get the chance to go away over night, so I’m hoping we do some fun sexy stuff. My tool box is packed mostly for CBT with Harold and between Joel and me, he’s the top. So, what to pack…

The lube and a vibrator for sure! Clothes pins and Wartenberg wheel are good for sensation play. Bondage is likely to be on the menu so we need the lightweight rope, carabiners, and the special bondage rope I made up for Valentine’s Day. Hmmm… do I pack the bondage cuffs that Joel made or the ones that Harold bought that I keep in my tool box? Such are the politics of kinky polyamorous relationships. I think I want the ones from my box because they fit better. Flogger? Why not.

Do I want lingerie? Um, no. As much as I love to dress up, I want this to be about us being ourselves together. I’m looking forward to relaxing, having fun, and enjoying Joel’s company. We may not even have sex. Maybe what we need is to snuggle up in bed with a movie. But I hope we have some hot kinky sex. And if we do – well, my bag is packed.