Nov 052011

I frequently have new favorite things. Just because I get enthusiastic over things all the time, doesn’t mean I don’t wholeheartedly embrace each new thing. The current new favorite thing is something I find incredibly cool. I tried to tell Joel about it and he got all squicked out. Didn’t want to talk about it. Was happy that I could do it with Harold. But that it was just squicky. So, you’ve been warned.

I think it’s amazing! Basically, it involves prostate massage, oral sex, and a hand job. Through experience Harold and I have figured out how to massage his prostate and make him shoot a load without actually orgasming. There is kind of a power trip involved in taking his spooge without letting him come, but I do like it when he comes. Dilemma. I experimented further and hit upon my new favorite thing!

I don’t know what it’s called, but here’s what I like to do: I put a couple of well lubed fingers into his asshole. I curl my fingers as though I was going for a g-spot – basically a “come here” motion, curling my fingers toward his balls. Then I touch his cock. His ass tightens on my fingers so hard that I’m afraid I will lose feeling. I use my mouth on his cock and stroke his balls, continuing to rub his prostate. After a bit I will put lube on his cock and jerk him off. I have to time everything just right. I want his natural orgasm and prostate ejaculation to happen at the same time.

It’s totally awesome. He comes so hard and spews an unbelievable amount of jiz. He really ejaculates something like twice as much semen with this method. (We should measure for science!) And he really seems to have an amazing orgasm. It makes me so happy to be able to do that for him! I love it so much that I don’t even mind not having him orgasm while we are fucking.

I get so excited about this. Perhaps it’s my excitement that alarms Joel. He’s afraid that I’ll find some sneaky way to massage his prostate. He need not worry. I’ll respect his boundaries. I just need a little space to jump up and down and be excited! I made Harold come a bunch! I am skillful! He felt really good! I have a new favorite thing!