Jun 292013
 

Going in for a kiss

He holds my face in his hands and my heart leaps up. I close my eyes, letting go of control, melting into him. The strength of his arms creates a bubble of safety. We are meant to be together like this – bodies responsive, muscles balanced between hard and yielding, our embrace igniting mutual desire. We breathe each other’s breath, slow and steady, one, two, three times.

He slowly brings us together. Our lips brush ever so softly. His tongue tickles my upper lip, making me shiver. I press my mouth firm against his. We open to each other, tongues darting in and out.

There is no time but now. Now is all time.

We kiss.

A kiss

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Jun 262013
 

Evoe and Joel getting intimateI’ve finally figured out what is more intimate and intense than making love with one of my partners – making love with both of my partners at once over a long period of time! Today I am sore in places I previously was not aware of having muscles. Today I tingle and twinge and shiver in remembrance of our time together, but I feel satisfied. I have amazing men in my life, lovers who know every inch of me, inside and out. I feel accepted, loved, and set free to soar.

When we set out, I wasn’t sure it was going to work. It was our first time with three of us going away together. 24 hours in a cabin could be heaven or it might be a trap if things blow up. With our busy lives, kids, and everything, it wasn’t easy to find the time to run away together. We’ve had occasional dates, an afternoon, but not enough time to really relax and talk. This was our chance to sync up.

We work well together. From grocery shopping together, to unloading the car and getting settled, we operated as a team. There was a little bit of awkwardness – like that moment when everything was done and we sat there looking at each other, wondering what to do next. Luckily we were in a beautiful place, in a cabin next to the river, with a hot tub and a king-sized bed. It didn’t take us long to get naked. And start taking photos.

Joel and Harold snugglingWe quickly discovered how nice it is to have three people, because when two people are engaged in some kind of activity, the third person can take pictures. I also really appreciated Joel taking photos because he’s so much of an artist and I rarely get the chance to have him involved. At first I played model self consciously, unsure of our surroundings, but as the evening progressed our sex play got kinkier and I started to ignore the camera.

We did talk a lot, working through things that have been bothering us, but each emotional revelation brought us closer to each other, often inspiring a round of sexual activity. Harold especially is prone to spasms of, “I love you soooo much!” followed by oral sex. It’s a very pleasurable way to work through things that might otherwise be too painful. I felt inspired and supported by their love, making it easier to release the stress and pain that builds up over time. Sandwiched between my Loves, I could cry and they could kiss everything better.

Joel surprised me by being vulnerable in sexual way, which I can’t remember seeing in the 13 years we’ve been together. Maybe in the first couple of years. but not for a long time. Shyly at first, then more clearly so I couldn’t mistake it, he asked me to explore anal with him. Each step of the way he made his consent clear, but he was opening up to me, letting me take him. I cherish his trust in me. It was a beautiful, deeply erotic pleasure to explore him at his request.

PeggingAfter that we spent time outside, under the clear night sky, beside the fierce river, the heat of the fire warming our flesh. When the cold got to our toes, we climbed into the hot tub, where I watched the guys make out and gazed at the stars. I felt soothed and at peace for the first time in about a month. Seeing Joel and Harold be physically intimate lifted some weight I didn’t know I was carrying. The don’t exactly turn each other on, but they do love each other a lot. It matters.

When we went inside, it was Harold’s turn to feel sad and vulnerable. I took him in hand, trying to find the right combination of loving touch and firm punishment. I spread him across my lap and delivered a good spanking, pausing from time to time to give his balls attention. I really get off on spanking and it helped to bring Harold back into alignment with me. We both reached a point where we couldn’t take it any more and had to fuck. We changed positions all over the bed, with Joel giving an assist here and there, before finally settling into an exhausted sleep all together.

Evoe going down on Harold while Joel takes picturesIn the morning we gathered in the sunroom to drink coffee, eat breakfast, and discuss world events. There’s a lot of comfort to be had in easy camaraderie, sharing a simple meal, having the luxury to meet each other’s eyes and just know that we’re thinking the same thing. I woke up with a new sense of optimism.

We spent more time in the hot tub, sharing business plans. I went in to shower and masturbate. Joel took pictures, his lust building. When he couldn’t stand it, we all three went upstairs and fucked in a flurry of limbs, tongues, and vibrators. My nipples never lacked attention. I was amazed to realize that both of my men seem to be turned on by watching me have sex with someone else. Both are willing to go down on me after the other has come inside me, when I am messy. I love them both so much.

Everything is kind of a blur now – a kaleidoscope of pleasure, sex, and love. I can’t explain what happened. Yes, it was all about sex, but the sex was just the language we used to connect to each other. It was a kind of magic. I think we must each glow with goodness. We make a pretty awesome threesome.

Jun 232013
 

For your viewing pleasure, here is the conclusion of our first-ever contest, an Erotic Image Event in honor of our 3rd Blogiversary…

Thank you to everyone who shared their images with us! We received some lovely images, making it extremely difficult to choose our 3 winning photos (all of the entries happened to be photographs), but I eventually came to a decision with the help of my polycule. In making our choices we looked at overall artistic composition, ability to evoke desire, and a sense of mystery. Ultimately, preferences for erotic art are pretty subjective. Simply submitting your work to this event makes you awesome in my book.

But we did pick some winners. Each of the 3 Erotic Image artists we selected will receive:

  • a sexy book from Rachel Kramer Bussel and Cleis Press (either erotica or Best Sex Writing 2013).
  • a pair of Nipple Embracers non-pierced intimate jewelry from Nipple Charms.
  • one condom sampler and one lube sampler of the winner’s choice directly from Lucky Bloke.

Our Grand Winner, the artist who submitted the image that titillated and fascinated us the most, will win a blue Twist from Crystal Delights!

Without further ado…

Sensual Spirit – We loved the soft focus of this image, with the trail of heart-shaped stones and the keyhole view of the vulva. The eye just naturally travels down the back to the gorgeous ass and thighs. This image is interesting, gently inviting, and full of simple eye catching detail.

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~by Serena Devi
www.aumlovetantra.com

Pleasuring Me – I know Molly from Sinful Sunday, where she is normally the person selecting the winning images, but I have long admired her images. Her entries to our contest didn’t disappoint. We loved this image because of the raw and intimate feel. It’s easy to imagine that she doesn’t know we’re watching, making us voyeurs as she pleasures herself. There is a tension to this piece that is palpable – and sexy as hell.

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~by Molly Moore
http://mollysdailykiss.com

 

And our Grand Prize Artist is…

 

Oral – I think I stop breathing when I look at this image. It’s beautifully suggestive without revealing much. The little details are what grab me though – his hand on her ankle, her foot on his shoulder, her face turned away out of the frame. The human form is gorgeous, but what people get up to together is pretty hot!

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 ~by Penny
http://pennysdirtythoughts.com/

Congratulations to the artists we selected! If you are one of our top 3, please send an email to evoe@wholesexlife.com with your mailing information.

Jun 212013
 

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“Oral”- An erotic self portrait of my boyfriend Jake and I sharing an intimate moment together.

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“My Muse”- An intimate photo of my boyfriend Jake taken by me, in our bedroom.

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“Candy”- A playful and colorful nude self-portrait.

~Penny from “A Penny for Your Dirty Thoughts”
Blog: http://pennysdirtythoughts.com/

Jun 202013
 

Just wanted to give you more information about the cool stuff we’re giving away for our 3rd Blogiversary Erotic Image Event! You still have time to enter.

Crystal Delights Blue Twist

Crystal Delights Blue Twist

Each of our 3 Erotic Image winners will receive:

Our Grand Winner, the artist who submits the image that titillates and fascinates us the most, will win a blue Twist from Crystal Delights! If you are not familiar with their glass sex toys, take a look, because they are award-winning, high quality fun.

So show us your stuff and be a winner! Enter soon, cuz the contest ends tomorrow (June 21, 2013) – click here for more information.

Jun 192013
 

Breast tie portraitFunny how things stop seeming kinky when I do them all the time. Squeezing Harold’s balls seemed shockingly, outrageously, horrifyingly kinky when he first proposed it to me. Now I knead his testicles pretty much any time we are sexual together. It has become normal. In fact, I would say that we hardly ever do anything kinky any more, but I know that other people think we do. I am beginning to see how the definition of kink would change from person to person and even for the same individual over time.

Today we did something that felt kinky. Actually, a couple of things – we tied up my breasts and filled my cunt with chain. That added edge of knowing that I’m doing something that pushes my boundaries is so sexy! I find that there is a fine line between hot and not when working with kink, so communication becomes super important. I need to be able to let my partner know when things feel more uncomfortable than provocative, but hovering between the two can really turn me on.

I’ve had my breasts tied up before, but it didn’t do very much for me, other than seem weird. For some reason, it was just the right thing to do today. I tied them myself, bending over at the waist and wrapping each breast tightly, crossing over in the middle. The effect was to make my breasts firmer and to stick out more. Having all that blood trapped made my skin so sensitive. Harold couldn’t stop stroking and tweaking. Every touch sent a rush of heat to my cunt.

Tied and happyIt was pretty easy to bring me to orgasm the first time. Wow. I might have been able to orgasm with breast stimulation alone, but we added oral sex and then a vibrator. I came so hard with Harold’s hands on my breasts! As the sensations subsided, the ropes around my chest suddenly didn’t feel right any more. My breasts were also turning blue. It was time to unwind the binding, but I was still pretty turned on.

After such an amazing orgasm, I was wet and I wanted something inside me. Our backpack of sex toys yielded up a length of chain that we have tried vaginally a couple of times. (You can read about it here.) Basically, we didn’t start until I was warmed up and we used a lot of lubricant to insert the chain, one smooth link at a time.

Initially, the only sensation was Harold’s fingers pushing the chain into my vagina. Then involuntary spasms of pleasure would clench my internal muscles around the chain and the resistance would make me spasm all over again. I started experiencing a feeling of fullness and the links started to feel pinchy going in and we halted there. (I’m getting good at stopping before things get uncomfortable!)

I can’t describe what it’s like to have my cunt full of chain. Physically, there is a sense of heaviness or fullness that is both comforting and erotic. Intellectually, although I know that we are doing this as safely as possible, chain registers on my danger meter. There is some part of me wondering what the hell I’m doing. Isn’t it just plain wrong to put foreign objects in your cootchie? Emotionally, I take all of the raw sexual energy of those thoughts and transform it all into blindingly hot sex.

SensationsI don’t know how else to explain. I was nearly coming the whole time Harold was inserting chain. Once it was in, I used a vibrator on my clit and orgasmed right away. Harold slowly pulled the chain out (about 5 feet worth) as I came and the orgasm lasted the entire time and then some. Having chain in my cunt is the most fabulous thing ever. And it’s kinky (for the moment).

Jun 162013
 

Chintz Curtain Condoms

Photo courtesy of  Behind the Chintz Curtain

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Jun 162013
 

Dark moist heat cradles me. Sweat trickles down my flesh like a lover’s caress. Rivulets slide between my breasts and down the backs of my knees. I feel safe and sexy, breathing in the scent of cedar, feeling my muscles release tension. I start to fantasize – parting my legs for his tongue to lick sweat from my creases, our slick hot bodies coming together on the wooden slats, slowly pouring cool water over ourselves as we recover from our passions…

Sauna

 

 

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