Dec 072013
 

Ready for something fun and a little different?

When I was a kid, one of my favorite things was trying to decipher the puzzles inside beer bottle caps when my parents had a party. These puzzles, called rebus,  were like a corny code that got easier to crack the more you practiced. I loved it and lately I’ve been thinking about those caps again, wondering how to recapture the magic.

With the help of my lovely partner, Joel, I have created our own WholeSexLife rebus puzzles. They are the grown up version of the bottle cap puzzles I loved. See if you can figure them out, then click through to check your answers!

  1. WholeSexLife rebus 1
  2.  WholeSexLife rebus 5
  3. WholeSexLife rebus 2
  4.  WholeSexLife rebus 4
  5.  WholeSexLife rebus 3

 

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Jul 182013
 

Icarus
Photo courtesy of  It Girl Rag Doll

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust].  Want to be included in e[lust] #49? Start with the newly updated rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

A Submissive’s Day

An Open Letter to Modern Female Feminists

Rape Porn: Rapists by Proxy?

 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Innocent Dark and the Sweet Talk of the Storm

 

~ Readers Choice from  Sexbytes ~

Sex Toy Stories: Fifty Shades of Pink

 

Erotic Non-Fiction

I’m fucking you, whether you’re wet or not.
Positions Filled
Second Wind
Snippets of bambi
Sir Knows Best
A Taste of Rub & Tug
Feels Like the 6th Time
Call of the Wild
Falling Violently in Lust with Suzanne
Submitting to His Will
Venus’ Orgasm

You don’t hit me hard enough spanking
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
Swingers club, group sex & a queue of men

Poetry

Jitterbug
XYZ Me

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Description of my orgasm(s)
Casual Dating
Mormon Sex Symbols

Blogging

The Big Ugly Self Portrait Challenge
Blogger is dumping adult bloggers; what now?

Erotic Fiction

Perfect Spring Day
Damp
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Six
Hook-Up
Lights Out
I Am Watching
Wicked Wednesday: Karma

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

There is No Smiling in S&M – Usually
Break the boxes
Your Guide To The Perfect Sex Toy!
Age Inappropriate

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Ass Worship: Errant Oral & a Brave Submissive
Tell Me You Want Me.
Embracing My Strap-On
Talking About Kinks & Fetishes With Vanillas
Thoughts: Age and BDSM

Writing about Writing

Flat-chested Heroines

Jun 202013
 

Just wanted to give you more information about the cool stuff we’re giving away for our 3rd Blogiversary Erotic Image Event! You still have time to enter.

Crystal Delights Blue Twist

Crystal Delights Blue Twist

Each of our 3 Erotic Image winners will receive:

Our Grand Winner, the artist who submits the image that titillates and fascinates us the most, will win a blue Twist from Crystal Delights! If you are not familiar with their glass sex toys, take a look, because they are award-winning, high quality fun.

So show us your stuff and be a winner! Enter soon, cuz the contest ends tomorrow (June 21, 2013) – click here for more information.

Jun 062013
 
Owning Your Birthday Suit (with Sinclair Sexsmith and Amy Butcher)

Owning Your Birthday Suit (with Sinclair Sexsmith and Amy Butcher)

Three years ago, when I decided to blog about my whole sex life, I had a pretty clear idea of what I wanted to do. I wanted to express, through my words and images, an openness and realness about sex – to talk about my experience just as I would any other area of my life. I decided to use my legal name because I didn’t want to hide behind a constructed persona. I chose to show images that reveal both my face and my body, an unusual choice in sex blogging. In short, I set out to bare it all.

I have yet to regret my exposure. We’ve probably been fairly protected by obscurity, but I have my fan base. I’ve had my share of guys who want me to explore some kind of sexual connection with them, yet they’ve been respectful. I am not a fantasy. Everything I am, is out there for people to see. My blog posts cover my joys, rage, embarrassments, silliness, sadness, fantasies, and ecstasy. I take the whole part of WholeSexLife seriously.

Not only am I baring my soul, but also exposing my body. I often get asked how I can post naked pictures of myself on the internet. It does take a kind of courage, not because I care what anyone else thinks, but because I have to love myself. The real vulnerability is not in taking off my clothes for the camera. Generally I am in the moment, making love to myself, my partner, or the photographer. Later, when I go to edit images, I might have a crisis of faith. Do I look too fat or too old? Is the image good enough? Am I good enough? It takes courage to ignore the voices in my head and publish the pics anyway. Vulnerable is way more interesting to me than perfect, anyway.

Of course nudity can be challenging, especially if you’re not used to it. I think most people worry that their body, fully exposed, is not as good as a swimsuit model’s or a porn star’s, but maybe deeper than that is the not unreasonable fear that being naked means you are “asking for it.” Even a thin film of fabric over the nipples or genitals seems to protect one from being seen as dirty or slutty. I decided early on that I own my body, naughty bits and all, and I get to choose how much to share. This has meant full nudity because I refuse to be ruled by fear. There is an openness and freedom about being in my skin.

By dropping artificial boundaries about what body parts are acceptable to show, I am able to more fully explore my own sexual reality. I can express myself artistically as a whole being. As a result, I accept myself (and all of my parts) as a whole being. I am able to bring this fluidity to all aspects of my sex life, knowing all the way to my core that all of me is sacred. Baring my body lets me bare my soul.

Are you thinking of baring it all? I urge you to give it a try. All bodies are unique and beautiful.

 

Jun 052013
 

Over the past three years we’ve reviewed a wide variety of sex related products:lubricants, sex toys, books, movies, workshops, and even a body part. After our commitment to imparting balanced and fair information, our top goal is to provide original images of the product in use. The review process is sometimes ecstatic, sometimes frustrating, usually educational, and often hilarious. We have it all here for you in our favorite images. Click on the image to see the original review!

 

Silicone Jack Rabbit

Silicone Jack Rabbit

 

Sqweel Oral Sex Simulator

Sqweel Oral Sex Simulator

 

RodeoH

RodeoH

 

Stamina Pump

Stamina Pump

 

My Hand

My Hand

 

Hitachi Magic Wand

Hitachi Magic Wand

 

Octopussy

Octopussy

Jun 042013
 

The past year at WholeSexLife has seen more of a shift toward trying to create great erotic images. We started contributing to Sinful Sunday which brought new visitors to the site and challenged us to keep coming up with new and better images. The Seattle Erotic Art Festival will be showing two of our photographs this year. It’s been an exciting time full of growth and expansion. I can’t wait to see what we come up with next!

Below are just a few of our favorite images from the third year. The name of the post that the image was published in originally is in the caption, along with the name of the photographer if it wasn’t me, Joel, or Harold. Clicking on the pic will take you to the post…

 

Mortality (David Steinberg)

Mortality (David Steinberg)

 

A perfect breast (Blyss Enns)

A perfect breast (Blyss Enns)

 

Pain made beautiful

Pain made beautiful

 

Vamp

Vamp

 

Last day of my 30's (Blyss Enns)

Last day of my 30′s (Blyss Enns)

 

Fear of rejection

Fear of rejection

 

Spontaneous

Spontaneous

 

Jun 032013
 

Our sophomore year of WholeSexLife saw a bit of a decline in the artistry of our images. We gained some technical skills, but were still trying to figure out how to capture the feeling of a moment. David Steinberg, an erotic photographer from San Francisco, taught us a lot. We had the pleasure of making love in front of his lens twice during our second year. We started having some photo shoots of our own, not just snapping images in the middle of sex. A new world opened up…

 

David Steinberg

David Steinberg

 

Fuck me like an animal

Fuck me like an animal

 

Sixty-nine (image by David Steinberg)

Sixty-nine (image by David Steinberg)

 

Libido limbo

Libido limbo

 

On drugs

On drugs

 

Making out

Making out

 

Cunt

Cunt

Jun 022013
 

It took us a while to find our stride. I wrote a prodigious number of posts in the first year (over 200), but it took some time for me to find my voice. From the beginning, having at least one image with each post was important. We wanted really great images – sexy and artistic. We practiced having the camera with us all the time, recording our intimate moments until we came to view the camera as another player. We didn’t have any real experience or knowledge of photography, but we had a whole lotta passion.

Here are a few of the best images from year one of WholeSexLife. The subtitles are the titles of the blog post that it came from and clicking on the image will take you straight to that post!

Seamless Sex

Seamless Sex

 

Who's on top?

Who’s on top?

 

Size Queen

Size Queen

 

Ms. Evoë's (sex) education

Ms. Evoë’s (sex) education

 

Viagra leads to math

Viagra leads to math

 

Okay on the outside

Okay on the outside

 

Spring in the Pacific NW

Spring in the Pacific NW

 

Jun 012013
 

Leather

My very first blog post appeared here, on this day, three years ago, talking about a gender queer burlesque show that Harold and I attended. We’ve come a long way since then: 25 pages, 450 posts, well over a million page views and more than 150,000 people from all over the world.

It’s very odd to look back over the past three years and see how much I’ve grown and changed. My writing style and my photography skills have improved exponentially with the challenge of blogging my sex life. I’m grateful to be able to share my journey with all of you. My interactions with my readers have helped me to know that not only am I not alone, but when I reach out, I change other people’s lives as well. Thank you.

We are going to be celebrating all week with some retrospectives. We are going to be particularly focused on our favorite images from WholeSexLife, culminating with very special announcement next Saturday! (Hint: we are going to be sponsoring an erotic image celebration with your help!)

So, Happy Blogiversary to us! We couldn’t have done it without you. Join us this week as we share our favorite hot images and announce a way for you to participate. I hear that the 3rd anniversary is traditionally celebrated with leather, so have a little fun and think of us!

Dec 162012
 

I adore the snow! I love watching it fall and I like to go and play outside. There is something so cozy about it snowing outside. I spent a lot of time yesterday warm in my flannel sheets, sipping hot drinks, and gazing out the window at the gorgeous flakes coming down. Snow just feels sexy, in that delicious, gotta have it kind of way. I can’t decide whether snow or sex is more fun, so I try to combine both!

Happy in the snow

 Dancing in the snow

Shakin' booty in the snow

Naked in the snow

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